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The “Rigor” of Kindergarten

A few years ago I read an article titled: Learning at Pace of Leisure – New kindergarten law to allow children more time to pick up skills.

So far, fine. But here’s what spoiled the story: “This is much better for making sure the kids who enter kindergarten are ready for the rigor of kindergarten,” said a director of instruction for a school district in Ventura County, adding that kindergarteners are expected to master more advanced skills than in years past.

The rigor of kindergarten???
Really?

This reminds me of a clip from the comedian Sinbad talking about the ridiculousness of having to pass tests to get into kindergarten. It went something like this: If the kid can eat a cookie and take a nap, he passes!

What happened to “Learning at pace of leisure?” When are we going to stop trying to force education before students are ready, and allow kids to be who they are supposed to be developmentally? When are we going to stop causing stress and anxiety to young children and their families, for no good reason?

Four and fikid fingerpaintingve-year-olds are supposed to play, nap, laugh, explore their surroundings, tinker, finger paint, and experiment with musical instruments like drums and cymbals. And, yes, they can start to learn numbers and alphabet sounds.

Statements like “the rigor of kindergarten” are precisely the reason we wrote, Midlife Crisis Begins in Kindergarten. The title is funny, but what is happening is tragic.

More and more, “kids are expected to master more advanced skills than in years past.” And who made that rule?

When I started kindergarten I didn’t speak a word of English (only Italian!). I remember playing games, singing, finger painting, having fun and loving my teacher. Pretty soon I was speaking, reading, and writing in English and ready to go on to first grade. That was in 1955.

Thank you, Mrs. Crenshaw, for making my kindergarten experience so enjoyable and successful that I wanted to go back to school.

Whether your children are in traditional school or home schooled, I wish for them that same enjoyable and successful experience—in kindergarten and throughout their school lives.

copyright 2019 by Mariaemma Pelullo-Willis, Reflective Educational Perspectives, LLC / LearningSuccess™ Institute
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LearningSuccess™ Tip: Lighting Matters

People are lampsaffected differently by various lighting situations, which can then affect focus and concentration when learning or working.

Is the lighting bright or low, natural or artificial? If artificial, is it incandescent, fluorescent, or full-spectrum?

Fluorescent lighting has been shown to negatively affect children and adults. It can cause headaches, difficulty reading, eyestrain, irritability, and hyperactive behavior. Plants will not survive under fluorescent lighting but we expect people to!

What if a student does better with natural lighting? Try moving that student near a window in the classroom, or at home when doing homework.

Full-spectrum lighting, commonly used to grow indoor plants, more closely resembles the full spectrum of light present in nature. Positive effects have been documented in classrooms that have switched to this lighting.

If you have fluorescent lighting at home, try switching to full-spectrum. It could make a big difference in attitude and productivity for the whole family.

copyright 2019 by Mariaemma Pelullo-Willis, Reflective Educational Perspectives, LLC / LearningSuccess™ Institute
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The Supportive Disposition

people talkingSupportive Disposition students need small group spaces that provide room to talk and discuss. They thrive in atmospheres that are interactive, cooperative, and fair. They love personal attention and focus on values and team spirit. They often “get in trouble” for talking too much.

College students with Supportive Dispositions can increase learning effectiveness by seeking out group discussions, group study, and cooperative assignments.

Do you know adults who have the Supportive Disposition? They bring harmony, cooperation, and sensitivity to a situation through discussion and talking things out. In the workplace, Supportive Dispositions thrive when their jobs involve interacting with people, discussing, and helping with problem issues. For example, they are perfect for customer service or human resources!

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The Imaginative Disposition

Imaginative Disposition students need spaces that allow them to design, create, think, doodle or daydream. They learn best when the teaching materials and techniquguy thinkinges involve the arts or some type of creative process.

College students who have the Imaginative Disposition might do better in classes that encourage new ways of thinking, creative projects, and artistic expression.

Do you know adults who have the Imaginative Disposition? Their intentions to contribute ideas are often misunderstood. This Disposition is often viewed as illogical, aloof, spacy, or irresponsible.

Imaginative Dispositions usually thrive in work situations that are “behind the scenes” – quiet spaces and periods of time to create, compose, imagine, and design – and where time is not regimented.

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The Curious Disposition

Curious Disposition students need flexible spaces that provide room for labs, kid experimentexperiments, and models. They thrive in atmospheres that encourage questioning, exploring, debating, and unscheduled time to work independently. Often, they ask lots of questions – about everything – because that’s how they learn best, not because they are trying to drive you crazy!

College students with a Curious Disposition can increase learning efficiency by incorporating drawing, constructing models, or using information maps.

Do you have adults in your life who have a Curious Disposition? They tend to get lost in their projects and forget about time. Their intention to stay focused on their work can lead to strained relationships. At work Curious Dispositions usually thrive in a workplace that involves experimenting, discovering, theories, building models, and coming up with solutions.

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The Spontaneous Disposition

Spontaneous Disposition students need flexible spaces that provide lots of room to move around. They thrive in atmospheres that are fun and challenging and allow for unscheduled free time. They learn best during field trips and real-life learning situations. Does your child or student have a Spontaneous Disposition?

College students with a Spontaneous Disposition can increase learning efficiency by incorporating movement when studying: bounce a ball, jump on a trampoline, go for a walk or run while listening to audio lessons.

Is therebike in air a Spontaneous Disposition adult in your life? They tend to be perpetual fun-seekers and often delight in being “center stage.” Their intentions to bring fun and laughter are often interpreted as irresponsible or inconsiderate behavior. Spontaneous Dispositions usually thrive in a work situation that involves lots of moving, variety and even some adventure!

 

copyright 2019 by Mariaemma Pelullo-Willis, Reflective Educational Perspectives, LLC / LearningSuccess™ Institute
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Happy, Successful, Contributing

A few years ago a young man came to my office for a consultation. He had just taken our Personal Success Power Traits Assessment and this was my first meeting with him. I found out that he was finishing his studies at community college and was planning his next steps. He was very clear about his areas of interest and career possibilities.

This was amazing in itself as so many young people have no idea what they want to do with their lives. But this is what really impressed me:

I asked him what he was hoping to get from the consultation. He replied that he was hoping my coaching could help him make choices that would:light atom

  1. create the happiest life possible
  2. make him successful in his own mind
  3. allow him to contribute to society

I thought, wow – most adults woud have difficulty articulating that.

This is our hope for all young people…that they might grow up discovering what they love, where their strengths lie, what they can contribute.

Confidence in oneself and belief that you can do something are the key ingredients for success in any area. Here at LearningSuccess™ Institute and Solimar Academy (our independent study program) we are passionate about helping young people (and not-so-young people) of all ages discover what makes them happiest, how to be successful, and the unique contributions they can make to the world.

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We believe that a school’s primary job is to prepare students to be happy, successful contributors to their communities and the world.

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LearningSuccess™ Tip: Colors Matter

The effect of color on mood and activity has been studied for years, especially by media marketers. Color plays a big part in advertising, and marketers know which colors will get us to buy, to stay longer, to spend more, etc. We know that some colors depress and others energize, some are soothing and others make us feel rattled. Some colors slow us down, and some make us feel hyper.

Besides the general color principles that seem to apply to everyone, a person’s favorite colors can also dramatically affect mood and activity.

colorful-977289__180When we are surrounded by our favorite colors we tend to think more positively and feel more motivated. When surrounded by colors we don’t like, the opposite happens, and we can actually feel restless, upset, distracted, unhappy, even angry. Just as with any of the other elements of environment, some people are more sensitive to color and some are less sensitive.

At home, parents can help their children decide on how to incorporate favorite colors in designated areas. For the classroom, children can be encouraged to buy school supplies in their favorite colors.

Will having your favorite color around guarantee passing the test or getting an A on a paper? No, but color can substantially change mood and outlook, and it’s one more piece of the puzzle that can contribute to a more positive learning experience.

Talking to your children or students about colors they prefer is also another way of letting them know that you are listening and that their needs and preferences matter.

Children (and adults) can learn to:

  • Add favorite colors (to the extent possible) to a personal room, study space, desktop, or office in the form of paint, art, rugs, plants, furniture, pillows, or other accessories.
  • Use pens and notebooks in favorite colors when taking tests or doing other paperwork.color-1022016_960_720
  • Wear favorite colors to an important interview or other appointment.
  • Stay away from disliked colors!

And here is the result of a study done in classrooms which shows how powerful color can be!

“…When architects changed school room walls from orange and white to blue, students’ blood pressure dropped and their behavior and learning comprehension soared.” –Dr. Morton Walker

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Learning That Works: Lesson from a Gardener

A few years ago I attended a presentation about gardening. The speaker said something that stuck in my head:

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If a plant becomes diseased or is infested with pests, your first question should NOT be, what kind of pesticide should I use? Your first question should be, is this environment appropriate for this plant?

Wow – that is so simple and yet so profound!

Immediately, my thoughts went to education. What happens when a student is struggling in school? Normally, the first questions that are asked have to do with getting the student to fit in. Unfortunately, that often means, what medication should we use?

Instead, the first question ought to be, is this environment appropriate for this student? And if it’s not appropriate, should the student then be forced to adapt by using medication?

Every person, every child learns in different ways. We need to begin acknowledging and honoring each student’s strengths and focus on those. In order to be successful in sports, coaches capitalize on a star player’s strengths. What they DON’T do is force that player to spend hundreds of hours trying to build up a weakness.

Traditional education, whether at a school or at home, typically focuses on a student’s weaknesses.

The secret lies in focusing on strengths – then watch the magic happen.

If you know a student who is struggling with school, I hope you will make this your first question: Is this program appropriate for this student?

 
And, if it isn’t, search for an alternative that will bring success to that child.
 

copyright 2019 by Mariaemma Pelullo-Willis, Reflective Educational Perspectives, LLC / LearningSuccess™ Institute
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Pledge for Learning Success

In our classes and workshops we hand out our Pledges for Learning Success. There is one for Parents, one for Teachers, one for Students, plus a personal pledge for creating life success. Here they are:Pledge Parent 2 short versionPledge TeacherPledge StudentPledge Adult

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